Are you actually saying you turned down a promotion due to the possibility of paying more tax at some point in the future ? Even though you'd actually have a higher take home pay ?
Put your own arm around your own shoulder , walk to a quiet place and then have a quiet word with yourself.
Sorry for the tardy reply, I was on holiday. The difference in take home pay between, say, £49k/year and £51k/year is only about £110 a month. Not worth it (for me) given the extra pressure, extra travel (business miles), expectations etc, and you don't rise up the payscale until you've done 3 years. Yes, after that the take home would be much more but I'd then be one of those people who are glued to their laptop all the time, and (for me) having constant anxiety about what tomorrow will bring and if I've organised all my meetings etc, keeping me up Sunday nights and turning my life into a sweaty mess.
Yes, we all have to pay for public services and it needs to come from somewhere. But on the other hand, how do we attract high earning professionals to the country if this relatively low down high tax threshold means you only keep half of what you earn? If you read it like that, it doesn't sound fair.