Pross
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I still would not bet on it. I know my small sample is not statistically significant but….
In the past 37 years of being married to a Catholic, I have encountered 3 priests who had “secret” heterosexual relationships, and that, clearly, is just the ones who got “caught”. I am not a Catholic by the way.
Plenty of rumours around one at my parents church too. There were certainly lots of female parishioners regularly hanging around him. There’s also a misconception that they live some kind of closeted lives before and during the priesthood. It may be the case for some other individuals but there is a huge difference in the backgrounds and personalities of those I’ve known. The one mentioned above worked managed a nightclub before being ordained. My sister was married by a friend who’d become a priest, he couldn’t wait to change into his civvies and join the party.