Rusty Nails
Country Member
I believe that Ian Dunt (as seen on another thread) was onto something when he wrote:
"I won't argue with anyone. I am zen. I am the spirit that has transcended the digital flesh.
My reason for this is simple. If I argued, it would achieve nothing. No-one has ever been convinced by an argument online. No-one has ever emerged with a better reputation for having argued online, even if they won. The whole thing is an utter waste of time...
the truth was, I was becoming cruel, or there was at least a possibility of cruelty developing in me. Each instance involved a subtraction from the parts of myself I wanted to encourage - connection, human empathy, understanding."
Unlike you or Ian Dunt, I am not a saint and have no problem at all in arguing. My version of arguing consists of giving my point of view and. If necessary, criticising the POV of others. I have absolutely no interest in or intention at all of changing anyone's POV and do not see it as trying to win. My version of arguing is also not averse to taking the piss out of someone, or too concerned about having the same done to me. I do not set out to offend, but do not worry if I do, nor am I offended by the bollox that others post.
This is not the Oxford Debating Society, just a bunch of random people, some of whom ride bikes, talking their own version of shite....including you.