monkers
Shaman
I have no idea who you refering to but I've never contacted you by pm. I suggest you inform the site owner if you are dissatisfied by other's pms. Anybody reading the Gender thread can make their own mind up about which members have tried to bully people from the platform with verbal abuse.
I neither said that any person had or hadn't, so why the need to question it? I'm just stating the obvious, that not all communication on this site is necessarily in sight.
And yes, people are free to make their own minds up on the record - but first they need to read it!