Isn't it funny how these ancient 'transgender' groups like the Hijra in India and the Fa'afafine in Samoa are almost exclusively feminine gay males? Not teenage girls or middle aged women. Just men that are gay or non conforming. Almost like their societies invented another category of personhood so they could chuck them out of the 'Men' category, but didn't hate them quite enough to actually call them women. It's a handy way of 'othering' gay men, isn't it?
The Prime Minister of Samoa famously called Laurel Hubbard a man, so it doesn't sound like these cultures see western transwomen as the same as the likes of the Fa'afafine at all.
I think there's definitely a case to be made for saying that all patriachal societies have marginalised and or oppressed non conforming males, in various ways, over the years
'Macho men' types were, and in some cases - Andrew Tate et al - still are, held up as the default and 'best' 🙄 type of man.
Any other sort whether gay, non conforming, cross dressing, or even more trad feminine behaving man needs to be told he is 'wrong' in some way, and shuffled off to the sidelines, avoided, demonised, and even got rid of by death in extreme cases.
All this is still evident in how men and 'masculinity' are talked about, and even performed, in many parts of our and other societies.
Of course anyone would be concerned that the psychological and medical help available for kids with body disphoria is of the highest quality, I think all that goes without saying.
But from personal experience I don't think that the transwomen I know are 'repressed gays' .
They wouldn't have had any bother coming out as gay in the circles they move in, nor been given a hard time for old fashioned cross dressing.
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There's definitely, genuinely, something else going on for them.
I can't quite pretend that I fully grasp it .
Except maybe as a definite reverse of having any kind of feeling like that myself.
I definitely feel* like a woman, and don't have any doubts about it.
Despite spending a lot of my time doing non trad female stuff, and largely avoiding the 'trad' feminised activities - I've never felt like I was in the 'wrong' body - more that maybe society had on occasion rather limited ideas about how I should live as a woman - but I never felt it was my body that was the problem - the problems were external to me.
But the transwomen I know do genuinely feel something other than just wanting to be 'non trad' male - or gay.
They could do that anyhow, no bother, certainly a lot less 'bother' than being trans.
So I choose to believe them, and respect how they wish to identify and live, as I don't think they'd put themselves through all that hassle for no deep seated reason.
*I know that in itself is 'subjective' as I only know how I feel, but therein lies part of the 'trouble'