Gender again. Sorry!

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multitool

Pharaoh
I'm getting the distinct impression the polarisation happened before my input, before this thread, and that cracked records have been playing the same tune for some time. The weariness to be found in the earlier pages of the thread didn't happen in a vacuum.

Sometimes condescension is a reasonable, rational response.
 

multitool

Pharaoh

Did you know there's no evidence that trans women...

....oh never mind
 

monkers

Legendary Member
The thread is the perfect illustration of the very point missing from the discussion - over 60 pages and more than 900 post in.

I'm not aware of any contributors themselves being trans.
This so-called debate is not the battle between trans people and cis people as often thought. Indeed not, it is a battle between the beliefs of groups of cis people with varying beliefs. Broadly there are two groups; the feminists to the left, and the gender critical people from the right. It is not that all feminists are trans exclusionary, nor are the groupings from the right - but gender critical people from various parts of the political spectrum have joined forces.

Perhaps in this context, people might begin to understand the frustration of the trans community, they are not often invited to 'the debate', they are left voiceless unless they themselves become noisy, and when they do they tend to be condemned for being so.

The media are not helpful to the discussion, they relish sensationalism. The headlines say it all. Witness they sensationalism and thirst for anti-cycling propaganda!

The polarisation on this topic is inevitable and as unfathomable to some as the God Paradox. You know God can do anything so he can lift anything; God can do anything so he can make a mountain so heavy that even God can't lift it. God doesn't leave clues though on how to figure this one out; so maybe not quite as perfect as some think? Whatever, please don't get exercised on the point, it's just an imperfect analogy.

For some the so-called 'trans debate' is consciously or unconsciously linked to their 'belief' or their 'indoctrination' depending upon your paradigm - no disrespect intended to folks whatever their religious beliefs happen to be. Remember it's just an imperfect analogy.

So we get to the reality of 'listen to the scientists' which places it precisely in the so-called 'climate change debate'. People can believe what they wish to believe on the one hand; can say whatever they like on the other. yada yada.

What the scientists say is subject to some variation depending upon their specialism. Some like to mention Robert Winston, an undoubtedly clever chap in his field; his speciality being reproductive sex and associated stuff. He says that trans people can not change sex. That's actually not that contentious. It's believed that trans people tend to say that they can. But that isn't true. Trans people as a group of people tend to be quite well-informed on these matters as you might expect. They do not say that they change biological sex, but they change their recorded sex.

Where trans people take umbrage though is Winston's other words, saying that trans people just mangle and mutilate their bodies- which I think goes beyond 'saying it as it is'. When feminists are up in arms about body shaming they tend to be sincere, but the principle sometimes tends to evaporate when talking about trans people.

Gender critical people believe that 'sex in binary and immutable'. Modern scientist who are specialists in this field say that it really isn't. Reproductive sex is not binary since there are people who do not entirely fit into the male and female categories. These people have a range of anatomical variations that relate to anatomy, chromosome variation, etc. These people may be termed intersex or mosaic - but these people need to be listened to and addressed appropriately.

Forgive me for saying, and I'll not call people out, but some people are somewhat confused with the linguistic terms. That doesn't surprise me since they do not make absolute sense.

First point to note is that the term 'trans' is misused. In correct usage we ought say trans woman, trans man, trans person, trans people, etc.
Therefore transwoman, transman, transperson, transpeople, are incorrect. It's a difference with a distinction. 'Trans' and 'cis' are not alternative suffixes to the word gender, they are adjectives.

When people say 'trans women are women' they are quoting the law that protects their human rights; they are not pretending that they are cis women.

'Transsexual' is now an outmoded term. Previously 'gender dysphoria' was considered to be a mental health condition. 'Transsexual was the medical diagnostic term. The World Health Organisation considered this later. Their panel of experts agreed that gender dysphoria is not a mental health condition, but that a person with GD may as a result to go on to have a mental health condition if GD is not ameliorated.

When parliament passed the Gender Recognition Act in 2004, the old world thinking prevailed. Accordingly there is terminology in the act that requires refreshment.

When it comes to gender dysphoria there is no test, no medical test, no psychiatric test. Those people who are committed to being disparaging to trans people might point to this and say 'told you it's all in their heads'. This is an unnecessary statement; we all are who we think we are in our heads. For none of us does this exist anywhere else. It's not a fanciful irrelevance, it is our self-knowledge. It is owed respect as we collectively have a human right to exist with dignity.

When trans people attend gender clinics they are asked endless intrusive questions, often irrelevant questions about frequency of masturbation when a teenager, sexual fantasies on reaching puberty etc. At no point is there any diagnosis. The diagnosis is simply does this person continue to express their self-knowledge that their innate sense of gender is at odds with their sex recorded at birth. And that's it!

In other words gender is always self-declared.

A problem word is 'transgender'. It's problematic for a number of reasons.
1 It's spelt with the 'trans' part as a suffix rather than an adjective like other trans terms.
2 If a person undergoes transition, their gender is confirmed not changed as the term implies.
3 It's an umbrella term that includes not just trans people, but transvestites, crossdressers, etc.
4 It's used in different ways in different parts of the world.
5 It lends itself to the form 'transgendered' which is in turn problematic for a number of reasons, but essentially it suggest that to be trans is to experience an enforced change by something external to the person.

I'll continue this later.

I'll gladly respond to questions on the condition that the questioner is polite.
 
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AndyRM

Elder Goth
Lovely to have you back @monkers!

Always enjoyed your contributions, and that was a particularly well put one.
 

monkers

Legendary Member
Lovely to have you back @monkers!

Always enjoyed your contributions, and that was a particularly well put one.

Hi Andy. Thank you, good to be back in touch with you. I have largely avoided all SM for a while. I needed a bit of R&R. Hope life is treating you well, we must catch up. xx
 

monkers

Legendary Member
I made a silly faux pas in my post and I don't seem to be able to edit - I'm guessing this feature is time limited.

I somewhat stupidly used the word 'suffix' where I meant prefix. Apologies.
 

icowden

Legendary Member
Perhaps in this context, people might begin to understand the frustration of the trans community, they are not often invited to 'the debate', they are left voiceless unless they themselves become noisy, and when they do they tend to be condemned for being so.
My impression is that the Trans community are leading the debate with their supporters but shutting down any discussion. Hence the general terror of any B or C list celeb of being accused of being a TERF, or offering an opinion either way.

Where trans people take umbrage though is Winston's other words, saying that trans people just mangle and mutilate their bodies- which I think goes beyond 'saying it as it is'. When feminists are up in arms about body shaming they tend to be sincere, but the principle sometimes tends to evaporate when talking about trans people.
For me, this is a difficult one. I find it very hard to understand that people cannot accept the flesh and bone that they are. In one of Iain M Bank's books about the "Culture", he explores a futuristic fashion fad for gross bodily mutilation- removing limbs, or displaying internal organs on the outside. If you decide to have a mastectomy or have your genitals removed / changed to represent those of a gender that you are not, that is - from one perspective - bodily mutilation.

Gender critical people believe that 'sex in binary and immutable'. Modern scientist who are specialists in this field say that it really isn't. Reproductive sex is not binary since there are people who do not entirely fit into the male and female categories. These people have a range of anatomical variations that relate to anatomy, chromosome variation, etc. These people may be termed intersex or mosaic - but these people need to be listened to and addressed appropriately.
I agree, but we also need to remember that , the true prevalence of intersex is seen to be about 0.018% (or in the UK about 12,000 people). This contrasts with 1.5 million LGB people or 14.6 million disabled people. It's a very small group - and yes I agree that they should be listened to.

When people say 'trans women are women' they are quoting the law that protects their human rights; they are not pretending that they are cis women.
I'm not so sure about this. I'm not at all sure that that is how it comes across to many women.

2 If a person undergoes transition, their gender is confirmed not changed as the term implies.
But is that confirmation not just a way of improving their mental health?

I agree with a lot of what you say. What I disagree with is the attempts (often by both sides of the debate) to terrorise and silence people. That should never happen, on any topic/
 

monkers

Legendary Member
My impression is that the Trans community are leading the debate with their supporters but shutting down any discussion. Hence the general terror of any B or C list celeb of being accused of being a TERF, or offering an opinion either way.

There have been any number of debates on cyclechat and in this place too. They have been lengthy, but I don't recall any poster being openly trans in any of those debates. Every day there are articles in the newpapers, repeated ad nauseum on social media, but seldom authored by a trans person. Therefore I gently say that I do not see the debate being led by trans people, they are excluded and that's the raison d'etre for the gender critical movement - to exclude.

The term 'TERF' was not coined by the trans community but by a radical feminist. It is after all only an acronym of trans exclusionary radical feminist which is what they purport to be. In fact I've seen women with badges claiming to be 'TERF and proud'. As I pointed out in my post, not all gender critical women are feminists, they more may come from the conservative or christian right - calling them TERFS is not accurate since they do not identify as feminists, so then will often quite correctly say they are not a TERF.

Just as shouting TERF may be judged as shutting down a discussion, so is shouting 'Woman: adult human female'. It is a statement of their absolutism. I'll say more about that later.
 

monkers

Legendary Member
''For me, this is a difficult one. I find it very hard to understand that people cannot accept the flesh and bone that they are. In one of Iain M Bank's books about the "Culture", he explores a futuristic fashion fad for gross bodily mutilation- removing limbs, or displaying internal organs on the outside. If you decide to have a mastectomy or have your genitals removed / changed to represent those of a gender that you are not, that is - from one perspective - bodily mutilation.''

I get that, it is difficult to get one's head around. That's just proof positive that you are a cis gender person. It's always difficult to walk in the shoes of the other person. There's no shortage of literature on the general subject. None of us can know what the full consequences of having some disability is like, though if we are close to it in our families we get greater insights than others do.

For the trans person they typically know from a very early age that something is not congruent. These feeling tend to be experienced before the vocabulary is there to express it. If you take the case of a person say my age (I'm 65) then had I been trans then the vocabulary would hardly have existed throughout my childhood.

I hardly agree that the 'term body mutilation' is attempting empathy with the person, rather the opposite, it is intended to be hurtful, or at least there is high risk that it will be perceived that way.
 

monkers

Legendary Member
''I agree, but we also need to remember that , the true prevalence of intersex is seen to be about 0.018% (or in the UK about 12,000 people). This contrasts with 1.5 million LGB people or 14.6 million disabled people. It's a very small group - and yes I agree that they should be listened to.''

This is why the term 'immutable' is of concern. The existence of people who have some form of intersex condition is an outlier to what society assumes is the norm. Ordinarily In any discussion the introduction of an outlier is not proof of a norm. Intersex conditions are not the norm, but they do serve to show that sex is not immutable. In some, but not all intersex conditions, genital ambiguity is such that it shows that sex is not binary.

People's approach to what this means can come from their other beliefs, such as religious belief, but then we are back to the God paradox - if God is the creator, and God does not make mistakes, how come people are born with conditions that push them outside of the norm?

Many people live with an intersex condition without ever knowing it. A friend of mine discovered that he has a mosaic condition by chance at the age of 47 with never an inkling beforehand. As people are not routinely tested for intersex or mosaic conditions, the true numbers are unknowable. I'm familiar with a paper produced Amnesty International. They say that the incidence rate is probably about 1.7% which happens to be about the same incidence rate as people born with red hair.

https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/n...: Being intersex is,people born with red hair.
 
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