My progress has been slow on the
videos of the hearings. They're not quite as pacy as
The Fugitive, which I rewatched the other day, but it's always fun to root for the good guys. The pace did pick up after the history lesson, with a stinging recitation of all the ways we are witnessing the patriarchy in action. I only wish it was on YouTube for easy linking to the greatest hits: "shapeshifting patriarchy which affords men an ineffable sense of entitlement taking away from rights of women" was one such standout. Also a lot about "absurd or perverse consequences." I can almost imagine Aidan in place of Tommy Lee Jones, except he'd be saying "I
do care."
Radical idea I know, but maybe let's try and create a society where people feel comfortable openly expressing and discussing their gender identity, then lesbians* can have a polite conversation with each other and be able to simply say no thank you, the way they would to any other person they're not interested in.
*and straight men. It's not just a lesbian issue.
Many have been saying "No thank you" to no avail, and politeness gets steamrollered; one of the reasons patience has been lost. You're probably aware of Sall Grover over in Australia. For those who aren't, she shut down her dating app for lesbians rather than admit non-lesbians (as men can't be lesbian by definition). She also recently lost an important court case. I'll leave any interested parties to their googling. Spoiler alert: she's magnificent.
View: https://x.com/salltweets/status/1782354798253355261
Remember that you don't have to go to X to watch the following.
View: https://x.com/salltweets/status/1827549082354905375
Parenthood is an interesting one. I see no inherent contradiction in a trans man being both a mother (person who has given birth) and a father (masculine role model who raises a child). I wish we could move to a state where trans men were comfortable identifying as mothers and didn't feel it encroached on their sense of self.
I don't mind if people think of themselves in terms of gender identities. I just don't want laws to be based on those identities, or for men to be given access to women's spaces. Hence, it's extremely important what is meant by the words man and woman.
The state I wish we could move to is the one where young women wouldn't be so uncomfortable with being women that they feel the need to bind or even remove their breasts, for a start.
Mother, father, parent, all have different meanings based on context and all can be verbs as well as nouns.
In the context of the reality we all must inhabit, those words have meanings born from biology.
Excellent! (and perfectly sums up many of the "discussions" i had in the early days of NACA ... )
That cartoon reached a large audience when Musk tweeted it, which brings us neatly to the freedom of speech that is so necessary to discuss the many issues involved. It drives some people absolutely, and I think even literally, insane when they can't shut other people up.