mudsticks
Squire
Whether it started off as pejorative and was then taken on as the opposite does not really matter, and as I said, I do not like it being used as an insult. Its current use is more relevant.
The problem with describing people as socially aware is the assumption that people who don't agree are socially unaware, when in fact they may just have a different view of what is socially correct or desirable.
I have my views of what is socially or morally correct in different scenarios, or indeed in looking at past history, but in anything other than a very small number of absolutes am wary of assuming that my views are absolutely or primarily right
On the contrary I think it matters a lot.
You were trying to claim that people used it to claim something for or about themselves, which they didn't do.
The fact that the word being used as perjorative, says a lot about that person using it, is their own fault, no one else's.
Being socially aware, doesn't mean that a person thinks they're 'absolutely correct'
It means they know there is an issue that needs taking into consideration, and exploring.
The idea that there is no nuance, context, or 'it depends' that needs considering, or that there are 'absolutes' is far more a tendency of the reactionary 'anti-wokes'..
See populist press for further details.