A public forum. An excellent example of the kind of harms that are a consequence of 'transitioning', whether chemically or surgically. In this instance a woman experiencing painful symptoms of a condition usually associated with menopause. Her fanny stopped working twenty years early. But you're right. its not my fanny. Why should i care?
You are not caring for the person though are you. You went to a forum intended for trans men to support each other. Your partner has effectively taken a post from there are provided to you. You have then used the post with intent to harm the trans man community.
His post informed the group he is happy but was asking for advice from others like him. The post also makes clear that they really don't wish to hear from judgmental people or those who wish to invade their right to privacy. Yet here you are.
Don't tell me that you posted this in a cycling community because you care. You've invaded a private space and posted here because you care. Yeh, right.
Women have been demanding the right to bodily autonomy for years. Here you are, a man attempting to deny another person's rights to bodily autonomy. However you are not here to defend women's rights to bodily autonomy, you are here to express bigotry, ''because you care''.
If you cared, there are plenty of ways to show that you care about people in all circumstances, but is there evidence to support that.
In the case of this person that you've decided to judge and bring to the attention of people on a platform adjacent to a cycling community, you've demonstrated how much you care by saying ''her fanny stopped working 20 year ago''. If you did actually care about this person, you'd consider all factors pertinent to them, but you are not, you are using them as a vehicle for your hate. And yes it is hate you are expressing.
Other people's bodily is none of your business. Each person has their own freedoms and rights including the rights to privacy and the right to control over their medical history. You have no right to invade it on the pretence ''because you care''.