multitool
Pharaoh
Maybe you and @multitool are right and women have nothing to fear from reforms that allow men to state they are women without any checks or balances. If that is the case why is it "trans genocide" to discuss the topic, or to point out that a good term for "people who menstruate" is "women"?
You called?
The problem with discussions like this is that rhetoric overtakes reality, gets legs of its own, then becomes reality for those on the extreme ends of it. For trans it can be the notion that everybody wants them dead (although, undeniably some do, and some others want them to never emerge from their houses and into public sphere), for the anti-transists it is the notion that trans people pose a threat. This might be the rhetoric that trans women are paedophiles or peeping toms. The reality is that trans women have used women's spaces for years and nobody noticed or cared, which is why the screaming and shouting only started when people decided to use it as a wedge issue and/or make a name for themselves.
Similarly, thos nonsense over language usage. When you actually listen to, for example, NHS trusts using terms like "people who menstruate", they are not excluding the use of "women", they are using this phrase in addition in order to include all.