AuroraSaab
Squire
Racism and transphobia are both forms of bigotry; you might think one form of bigotry is more less equal than another? However if you think they are unequal, that in itself is an indicator of bigotry.
Wanting a female carer to provide intimate washing to your elderly mother with dementia in a care home, rather than a man who says he's a woman, is neither bigotry nor transphobia. You have to call it such because it's literally the only argument you have in that instance. No decent person would deny anybody, male or female, same sex care in those circumstances.