I think we are probably more aligned than you might think. When it comes down to details and specifics though, most people on here will find themselves regarded as terfs. The benchmark for being a terf is actually very low lol.
Going by this definition it seems that you tick the boxes.
Having said that, I'm not a fan of people screaming TERF at each other, because it moves away from the actual issues at hand, and it is as dehumanising at some of the Terf rhetoric. You absolutely have a right to and should voice your views and your concerns, so it won't be me shouting you down with godwinised slogans. That said, as you know I don't think you've provided convincing evidence that the apocalypse of fake TW in women's spaces is likely and I feel you've been disingenuous and resorted to low tactics when falsehoods have been pointed out (clearly you will disagree). Your, and mudsticks, tactic of trying to deny me a voice on the basis of my gender is particularly dishonest given that there are many women who hold the same views as me. I showed you polling of women's views pre-self ID law that showed the majority of women's views aligned with mine (in contradiction to your claim that they aligned with yours) and you dismissed it. Clearly they are the wrong sort of women, suffering from patriarchal capture and without minds of their own (oooh the irony).
However, in so far as it is a threshing out of ideas, this thread is done and there is no point going over it again and again, especially, to be blunt, with such a poor debating partner as you. Views may change over forthcoming years in the light of social change, yours or mine, or maybe both. We will see.