Hi Farfromtheland
N here- the niece of monkers and a woman with a long trans history. Thank you for an interesting post.
You may have in mind what Monkers has said about philosophers. She often says that she is frustrated by some modern day academic philosophers who will abuse their position and bastardise the art of true philosophy. She complains that the use of false dichotomies, deceptive argument, application of razors, etc are willfully and skillfully applied to produce what is taken for persuasive argument. I see her point and am inclined to agree with her.
I agree with you concerning the Trans / Terf dichotomy being a false one. The argument is a chiefly a political one between groups of people concerning the rights of trans people. Personally I am not involved in argument with those campaigning for the removal or reduction of the human rights of trans people.
The body dysmorphia presentation is a false one. I have never personally met with any person with a trans history who subscribes to the view that their brain was 'allocated', so to speak, to a wrong body. This is an intended misdirection which stems from a now somewhat hackneyed line that intended some promotion of understanding. I don't believe it was ever intended to be literal. In the past some trans people have said, to paraphrase them, ''imagine being trapped in the wrong body''. Misdirection is then applied to produce the line ''born in the wrong body'' with attempts to further ridicule trans people.
There is no one person who can speak for all people with some degree of gender variance, and I will not attempt it. Over time there have been any number of personal stories which bring about a set of the more common narratives. None of us have exactly the same drivers, be they related to our overall sense of self, be that sexual or social, together or in varying proportions.
This is exemplified in the range of manifestations experienced and the responses to them. Within my own circle of friends, there is diverse range of responses to their experiences in terms of treatments opted for, treatments rejected, along with the whole range of preferences for sexual partners. The attempt to fit all trans people into boxes to say they are ''all like this'' is not simply a failure to understand, but a strategy to demonise all trans people as desperate and dangerous. It is very easy to identify those utilising this strategy; they tend to be the busiest and loudest of people. They are easily spotted on this thread. The 'protection of women and girls' is a ruse. Women and girls will invariably be on the receiving end treatments ranging from unwelcome attention to the most extreme forms of violent and sexual abuses at some point in their lives. Typically this will come from cisgender men and women, but also in a very small number of cases from trans people; what you may consider to be outlier cases which through alarmist measures become headline cases.
I must end here, having not given myself time to read this back it must stand as it is, errors and all.