What I can tell you, stereotypes aside, is that as a lesbian women is that lesbian women do not all have the same drivers. Some of us just don't like male bodies but like male company. Some of us don't like male bodies or male company. For some lesbian women it is just about bodies, but there is another group, and they tend to be feminists. It's not about bodies, it's political. These are women who talk endlessly about the patriarchy. It's more that than lipstick lesbian types, and diesel dyke types. It's not all about padded check shirts, short hair and eye brow piercings. Just as there are hierarchies between some women based on motherhood and grandmotherhood, there are hierarchies involving pretend star ratings.
Gold star -never been with a man. Silver star - tried it once didn't like it, and so on.
I'm a kind of hybrid within this mad mixture. Men's bodies are less attractive to me than women's, but men's bodies don't disgust me. I tend to joke, it's not so much the dick I object to, but the dick it's attached to - but that's said for laughs and doesn't fully accurately describe me.
Some lesbians can be promiscuous, but I haven't slept with women until I have an otherwise developing relationship. That's nothing to do with morals, just what I've always been comfortable with. In the past I've been a feminist, now I think it's lost its way, and gone a bit loony. I also think that the feminism that I engaged with was ultimately counter-productive and has harmed women and families.
I was also a Greenham woman for a while, one of the lesbians that they photographed, called dungaree dykes, plastered in the mainstream media that people liked to demean or otherwise laugh at. Cutting the wire there is the only criminal act that I've committed, but I managed to avoid arrest.
Friends of mine were arrested there and went to prison for refusing to pay fines. One woman I met there remains one of my closest friends. She went to prison for the cause while she had a baby just a few weeks old.
So I know how to be an activist, and I've been involved in activism in the past - Greenham, Iraq and Brexit, Pride, but all in the past, and I've never been a trans activist beyond going to a Brighton hotel on one occasion to a Fair Play meeting to hear what that had to say; and what they had to say was pure hate. I didn't speak, I went outside and literally threw up. I refuse to hate men or trans people. If this is the state of modern feminism to support this behaviour, they'll never get any further support from me.
My main problem with you, is not that you are an activist, not that you are non-binary, or a hetty. My problem with you is that you love to hate, that you are willfully fact resistant, willfully reason resistant, the way that you sneer at people, demean people, are snidey, and the fact that lies just pour from you.