Can you perhaps make up your mind? You wanted a ‘say’ (short of denying permission) in a referendum held in Scotland to decide Scotland’s future. You couldn’t explain how that would manifest itself so have morphed instead into having a vote by England on England’s place in the union.
A vote which you acknowledge wouldn’t need the permission of the Scots, in direct contrast to the position Scotland is in.
Given that England has an electorate roughly ten times that of Scotland, your vote could effectively be a veto on whatever Scots voted for.
So I don’t think you’re being entirely honest about this. For many union supporters in England, the demand for a UK wide vote on Scotland’s future is an excuse to thwart any possibility of our independence.
Would you like to give an answer to the question about the fairness of the one-way permission situation?