No, you haven't, that's the point. You argue that transwomen are a special group to whom the normal safeguarding that we apply to other males shouldn't apply. You don't want unisex, or 3rd spaces, because there's no validation to be had. You simply push for access to women's spaces but only for transwomen, not all men.
If your point is that men are no threat to women then everywhere should be unisex surely?
Having been caught out in a lie, you are now trying to say you did it deliberately to make a point? You lied for a few days; seems like a lot of work just to make a weak point tbh. I admire the desperate attempt at a save though.
Now listen very carefully, I will only say this once more.
People are the sex that is on their birth certificate. That is the law. Everything else you say about that is wrong. The protected characteristic of sex relies on what is stated on the birth certificate - nothing about the century long hard won rights for women to vote, nothing about the length and style of the urethra, and nothing about what Aurora and her friends want. To use your phrase - it's magical thinking.
The EqA deals with the rights to be free from discrimination, victimisation, and harassment of people.
The GRA deals with the rights of people to live their life free from interference.
You should not interfere in the rights of people living a free life, or discriminate against them, or victimise them, or harass them, but you are not just someone with an opinion, you've made it your life's work to interfere with their rights with false negative stereotypes.
Trans women are not harming women in the toilets, or in changing rooms, or in prisons. Nor are they punching TERFs in the face.
So my message is not about unisex facilities, or taking rights from women, or not caring for women or girls or any of you false mischaracterisations, it's this LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE.