mudsticks
Squire
'Soft, effeminate men' totally rock. Nothing better than a guy who is comfortable and with himself and his body, and who doesn't need validation from others.
And who don't view women as some other species to either be vilified, objectified, generalised about, or put on a pedestal...
But recognise that we're just wonderfully varied human beans ...
Lucky to have quite a few of those type of men in my 'real world'
Some are straight, some are gay, some are trans.
Some even have 'trad gnarly' occupations, but none of them are 'hard' men.
Thankfully.