Hang on, you’re the one using Pale Rider’s unexplained absence from the forum as supporting evidence for your thread. It’s not ‘tearing you apart’ to suggest there’s no evidence to support your accusation.
The answer to the original question you posed here is… no.
the only evidence i have , as i already stated was someone elses post in the other place….if they were wrong then so be it….is it tearing me apart, not in the slightest and why would it??