American bombshell? Roe vs. Wade....

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BoldonLad

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Show me a religious person who does not want to convert someone else to their religion. Even in the Church of England it is not possible to politely stick to one's own beliefs. That isn't a thing that religion does.

I know people who are religious, I engage with them regularly, they do not attempt to enforce their views on me. It is true that I disagree with them on many things.

I know, or have known, some people of a Religious persuasion who have attempted to to enforce their views on me (unsuccessfully).

I know people who are not religious who hold different views to me, but, do not attempt to force their views on me.

I know people who are not religious who hold different views to me, who do attempt to convert me to their view.

I think it may may be called something like " a cross section of people with different views".
 

BoldonLad

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You can respect people's right to hold those opinions, and respect their right to express them, within the law, without giving any credence to the actual opinions themselves.
I assumed that is what BL meant.

Thank you for explaining it better than I did. That is exactly my stance. I would only add, no need for insults, which, from what I have seen on here, I think you would agree with.
 

BoldonLad

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It's unclear what you mean by that, however 'foul' was perhaps an overly emotive choice of word.

So let's say 'controversial'. There exist people with deeply held 'controversial' opinions and beliefs that are widely viewed as unacceptable, even outrageous - so should we respect the views of those who think black people are not deserving of equal rights? That homosexuality should be outlawed and gay people criminalised? That women should have no autonomy over their own bodies?

It sounds a lot like you think that we should.

I object to your inference that I may hold such views. I did not say that. Would you care to show me a single post where I have expressed such views?
 
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My partner is Catholic...well Irish Catholic ^_^ She knew when she met me I was a Atheist ! I can't say I ever remember her or anyone from her family trying to convert/push religion on me.They might take the piss on a regular basis though.I find it interesting as in it's a nice story,but that's about as far as it goes for me.
She's a feminist at heart and knows the hypocrisy of the Catholic church,and disagrees with it on most things ! But as she says when your brought up a Catholic it's hard to shake some of it off.
 

All uphill

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My partner is Catholic...well Irish Catholic ^_^ She knew when she met me I was a Atheist ! I can't say I ever remember her or anyone from her family trying to convert/push religion on me.They might take the piss on a regular basis though.I find it interesting as in it's a nice story,but that's about as far as it goes for me.
She's a feminist at heart and knows the hypocrisy of the Catholic church,and disagrees with it on most things ! But as she says when your brought up a Catholic it's hard to shake some of it off.

Sounds rather familiar!

Ms AU's people in Ireland accepted me, a divorced English atheist from a protestant background, with warmth from day one. It's never seemed terribly important if we agree so long as everything is said and done in good faith and with respect.
 

BoldonLad

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My partner is Catholic...well Irish Catholic ^_^ She knew when she met me I was a Atheist ! I can't say I ever remember her or anyone from her family trying to convert/push religion on me.They might take the piss on a regular basis though.I find it interesting as in it's a nice story,but that's about as far as it goes for me.
She's a feminist at heart and knows the hypocrisy of the Catholic church,and disagrees with it on most things ! But as she says when your brought up a Catholic it's hard to shake some of it off.

Sounds similar to myself and Mrs @BoldonLad, I can even throw in the Divorce card ;)
 
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theclaud

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You can respect people's right to hold those opinions, and respect their right to express them, within the law, without giving any credence to the actual opinions themselves.
I assumed that is what BL meant.

I don't disagree with this, but to be fair to XT, 'respect' is a slippery term, with connotations of admiration and value as well as due regard to rights. I would say I respect Unkraut's right to hold views on abortion which are rooted in misogyny, and not to be subject to interference by the state or authorities on account of holding such views, but it would be a stretch to say I respect those views themselves.
 

Ian H

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My partner is Catholic...well Irish Catholic ^_^ She knew when she met me I was a Atheist ! I can't say I ever remember her or anyone from her family trying to convert/push religion on me.They might take the piss on a regular basis though.I find it interesting as in it's a nice story,but that's about as far as it goes for me.
She's a feminist at heart and knows the hypocrisy of the Catholic church,and disagrees with it on most things ! But as she says when your brought up a Catholic it's hard to shake some of it off.

Catholicism is (or perhaps was) a fairly closed society with its own schools, which meant that you grew up with friends and relatives of the same faith. Losing your faith meant losing friends and family, becoming an outcast. I was lucky in having a cohort of friends who were equally questioning, and in moving away from home, never to return, early in life. But meeting a friend of my sister recently, she told me how she was thinking of attending mass again simply to build bridges with her family. It reminded me of a teacher/priest telling us that there were no ex-catholics, merely lapsed catholics who would inevitably return to the faith. I still find that slightly chilling.
 

Unkraut

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If 'pro lifers' believed in 'life' they wouldn't be tying to endanger women's wellbeing by forcing them to carry unwanted pregnancies.
No-one forced the women to get pregnant in the first place. The point is they have already made their choice.
What is so magical about the moment of conception? That seems pretty arbitrary. Why isn’t a sperm or egg cell alive and deserving of individual care?
The issue is cast in terms of a woman's right to choose. This is an incomplete sentence - what is being chosen - so it needs completing:

i) A woman's right to choose to end a pregnancy

ii) A woman's right to kill her unborn child.

Apart from judicial execution of service in the armed forces doesn't nearly everyone deny there is a right to kill other people? Thou shalt not kill is something everyone would agree on as covering something morally wrong.

So the argument is not about women's autonomy or attempts to control them, it is does the new life that is created at conception come under thou shalt not kill? That abortion is about the unjustified ending of human life. The right to life trumps autonomy. This living being even when still a clump of cells is not part of her body. It may even have been fertilised outside of it.
This is completely incorrect. Up to 11 weeks, abortion is medical not surgical. Your sermon giver is lying to provoke sensationalist outrage.
The acccount was highly compressed and was intended to show why some object so strongly to abortion by virtue of what it actually is. The horrors he described are what is happening in an American context.
it's not possible to have rational discussions with garbage
In what way was MacArthur's presentation garbage? Is it garbage in the sense of not true, or gargabe in the sense of you didn't agree with it?
Maybe if the same men legislating over women's bodies also legislated to ensure that the men impregnating them provided full financial and emotional support for the rest of the child's life, the issue would be less contentious. If they are that desperate for women to give birth rather than have terminations, then a full package of financial and emotional support for that woman and child should also be mandatory.
Roe was enacted by an all male supreme court, all white with one possible exception.

The support you talk of is called marriage! The father of any child is morally bound to provide and look after it and the mother. Makes men grow up and take responsibility. If abortion is morally wrong, and I think it is, men are at least as culpable as women, possibly even more so.
 
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icowden

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I know people who are religious, I engage with them regularly, they do not attempt to enforce their views on me. It is true that I disagree with them on many things.
I know, or have known, some people of a Religious persuasion who have attempted to to enforce their views on me (unsuccessfully).
I know people who are not religious who hold different views to me, but, do not attempt to force their views on me.
I know people who are not religious who hold different views to me, who do attempt to convert me to their view.
I completely agree with you. However one of the tenets common to all (I think) religions is that only those "in" the religion will be saved, go to a nice afterlife, and those "out" will not, therefore it is behoven of those who are "in" to try to convert those who are "out". Whether or not they do it is another matter entirely and I agree that many individuals don't bother - it doesn't mean that one should not be wary of the religion however and how it is being used, whatever that religion may be.
 
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I completely agree with you. However one of the tenets common to all (I think) religions is that only those "in" the religion will be saved, go to a nice afterlife, and those "out" will not, therefore it is behoven of those who are "in" to try to convert those who are "out". Whether or not they do it is another matter entirely and I agree that many individuals don't bother - it doesn't mean that one should not be wary of the religion however and how it is being used, whatever that religion may be.

I wouldn't join a religion that would have me as a believer....
 

mudsticks

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No-one forced the women to get pregnant in the first place. The point is they have already made their choice.

The issue is cast in terms of a woman's right to choose. This is an incomplete sentence - what is being chosen - so it needs completing:

i) A woman's right to choose to end a pregnancy

ii) A woman's right to kill her unborn child.

Apart from judicial execution of service in the armed forces doesn't nearly everyone deny there is a right to kill other people? Thou shalt not kill is something everyone would agree on as covering something morally wrong.

So the argument is not about women's autonomy or attempts to control them, it is does the new life that is created at conception come under thou shalt not kill? That abortion is about the unjustified ending of human life. The right to life trumps autonomy. This living being even when still a clump of cells is not part of her body. It may even have been fertilised outside of it.

The acccount was highly compressed and was intended to show why some object so strongly to abortion by virtue of what it actually is. The horrors he described are what is happening in an American context.

In what way was MacArthur's presentation garbage? Is it garbage in the sense of not true, or gargabe in the sense of you didn't agree with it?

Roe was enacted by an all male supreme court, all white with one possible exception.

The support you talk of is called marriage! The father of any child is morally bound to provide and look after it and the mother. Makes men grow up and take responsibility. If abortion is morally wrong, and I think it is, men are at least as culpable as women, possibly even more so.

Yes a woman's right to choose whether or not to continue being pregnant, and whether or not to have a child..

The argument is her autonomy It's her body, it doesn't belong to anyone else, If you say an unformed foetus has more right to use her body to grow in than she has right over her own body then you're elevating the rights of that foetus over hers.

No one has the right to force her to have a child.

I don't know why anyone sees any good in that, for the woman, for an unwanted child, or society.

Apart from the fact that she may well have not chosen to have sex at all (rape)
She may not have chosen to have sex in order to become pregnant .

Humans have consenting sex for many other reasons than procreation, this is why contraception exists, and has done as part of medical science for a long time.

Before that a variety of other methods were used, with varying degrees in of success, but outside of sterilisation, or infertility, nothing is infallible.


Do you only ever have sex with your wife when trying for a baby??

Depending on your technique, poor, or lucky her..

Sometimes contraception fails, inside or outside of marriage.

You seem to think that women should always bare the consequences of having sex, where contraception failed (or where there was rape) and be forced to have unwanted children.

Why, what good comes of that.??
Bearing , and birthing children, let alone raising them is a heavy burden on a woman's body, and a big responsibility.

Why do you want to force that, on a woman especially when there is a safe effective way of terminating those unwanted pregnancies early on.

I said that your quoting of the pastor was garbage because the vast majority of what he alleges happens isn't true. Any half truths he puts are presented in such a way as to be deliberately inflammatory..

If that's what 'pro-lifers' are believing then they need to give their heads a good old shake, and get educated


I could list any number of horrible situations where the consequences for a woman being forced to have a child, or the way in which a woman was forced by a man to become pregnant, have been horrific, there are many millions of instances, of women being treated terribly, and they are true, but those horror stories are not necessary to support the 'right to choose' .

They lend weight, and draw peoples attention to bad situations, but however an unwanted pregnancy occurred it's still a woman's own body, it's her choice .

If you say as you did earlier that terminations might be ok in instances of rape or incest, why then, and not any other bundle of cells??

Does that bundle of cells that was formed by a rapist impregnating a woman have less 'right' to grow in a woman's body, than any other bundle of cells, why?, it's not their fault how they were formed is it?


As for the idea of religion or state, somehow forcing people into marriage, and then forcing them to stay married, if a pregnancy occurs that's a fine recipe for miserable people, miserable children and further abuse.

Or are you going to somehow police against all sex outside of marriage.??

Good luck with that..

Come to think about it, you're going to police against all sex inside marriage too, if that sexual congress is not intended for procreation purposes then stop it now!!

Yes men need to grow up and take responsibility for their own actions.

Part of that 'growing up' would be to stop trying to force unwanted pregnancies on women, or trying to control them in other ways.

tldr.

The only humane option is allowing women to choose whether or not to have children .

Principally through the provision of freely accessible and appropriate contraception.

But if that has failed, and the woman has no wish to continue an unplanned pregnancy then she should have the right to end it through an early termination.

Her body, her choice.

Anything else is forced continuation of a pregnancy which is inhumane.
 
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theclaud

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I'm not going to bother with a lengthy reply to Unkraut's last, because it's so grotesque I don't wish to dignify it by treating it as a legitimate argument, but it's clear from the opener that the forced birther position is mainly about punishing women for having sex (whether it's sex they wanted or not) or (in the case of the IVF he alludes to) punishing them for not affirming the importance of male sexual performance as procreation. I've got a theory that the reason such extreme misogynist views are indulged with respectful 'debate' is that the urge to punish women runs very deep, and very close to the surface even amongst many people whose conscious political position is more enlightened. Anyway, I suppose we should at least thank him for making it so visible.
 
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