This is how the majority of women feel about motherhood .
If it's not an active choice then it's no choice at all
Neither of my pregnancies was 'planned' but I found myself in a situation and state of mind where I was happy to continue them .
Now there are two young men on the planet, healthy happy and contributing in their own way to society.
But it wouldn't have been a 'bad' decision if for any of the reasons Caitlin mentions I had chosen to terminate those pregnancies .
Bringing unwanted children into the world, serves no one, least of all those kids
My midwife for my births told me that at least half of the births she attended were the result of 'unplanned' pregnancies
It happens, very regularly, even with contraception being available.
If I'd had a third child I doubt I would have now the solid businesses, and political life, that contribute to society in other ways, and which fulfil me
I just don't understand the mentality of people who want to force motherhood on the unwilling .
What's that all about??
More about control and subjugation of women I think
Under the pretence of doing 'Gods' work
There's plenty of God's work to be done among the already born, needy and disadvantaged.
Fix that oh pious 'Christians'
Or develop some tech that means an unwanted pregnancy can be transferred to a male 'anti abortion' host.
They can do the bearing and the raising.
Not only when they 'volunteer' for it of course .
Just randomly, like a 'baby' bomb dropped into their lives..
Meanwhile Women of America..
Countrywide Sex strike??
Get the 'not my problem girls' guys to take some notice..
Until all this nonsense is firmly put back into the history books where it belongs ..